In her community, FGM was seen as essential for a girl’s purity and marriageability. Many families believed it marked their daughters as virgins, making them more desirable for marriage.
However, Nima’s perspective changed when she participated in DRC’s community forums, where the harmful consequences of FGM were openly discussed. She learned that the practice was not a religious requirement but a deeply rooted cultural tradition that violated girls' rights. She came to understand the long-term pain and trauma she had unknowingly inflicted on young girls.
Realizing the harm, she had caused, Nima made the courageous decision to stop performing FGM altogether. She recalls, "When I understood the suffering I was causing, I knew I had to stop. I transformed and began advocating for the rights of women and girls and the importance of human dignity."
Now, Nima is a vocal advocate against FGM, speaking out about its dangers and encouraging her community to abandon the practice. She works tirelessly to empower women and protect children, ensuring they are not subjected to the same pain she once inflicted.
She has also noticed that many men in her community strongly support FGM, believing that girls who have not undergone the procedure are impure and unmarriageable. These deeply entrenched beliefs continue to pressure women and girls into undergoing FGM. As part of her advocacy, Nima now challenges these harmful norms, urging men to respect girls’ right to bodily autonomy and dignity.
Her transformation is a testament to the power of awareness, education, and personal change. By rejecting FGM and becoming an advocate for girls’ rights, Nima is helping to create a safer, more dignified future for the next generation of women in her community.