Silvia: What is unique about your duty station El Gedaref? What makes it different from Khartoum or the Darfur region?
Tendai: At the yearly Registration Managers meeting, I had the opportunity to learn about the work outcome of other operations and what are the priorities for 2023. I was impressed to see our operation is doing very well in terms of issuing ID cards and using the data PRIMES tools. In fact, we seem to be the only operation using all of them: the Global Distribution Tool (GDT), proGresV4, CashAssist, etc. It’s quite a unique office.
Silvia: It is your first professional experience outside your home country, Zambia. How is it to work in a new environment, far away from home?
Tendai: The first month here was quite difficult. The culture, the language, the weather, everything was so new to me. However, my supervisor, who is an amazing person helped me a lot. He is very flexible, I can reach out to him at any time and he's always available to offer guidance. Therefore, having a good supportive system helps you to settle quickly and, right now, I'm truly enjoying my experience.
I'll admit, the first time I left my duty station to go on R&R, I was so relieved. Now, that I am going on my second R&R and annual leave the day after tomorrow, I feel that I am going to miss this place [laughs].
Silvia: What tools do you use to take care of your mental health? Do you have any resources that you use to manage stress?
Tendai: One of the things that helps me with mental wellbeing is making sure that I divide my time properly. If you are not careful, you can easily get carried away with work and forget yourself, especially in this kind of duty station where it’s difficult to find social places. So, you mostly do home-office-home. Even when you are home, you are tempted to open your laptop and answer your emails or work. Therefore, I believe that it is very important to stick to working only during office hours.
To keep me busy in my free time, I started a little garden on my balcony. Since it is difficult to find vegetables in the markets here, I planted some seeds that I brought from home. I also do some dancing, and I go for walks with friends. In the weekends, we also spend time playing cards or Scrabble, watching movies, and going to the local market.
Silvia: As a woman, do you feel safe to go for walks in your duty station?
Tendai: It’s safer to walk with a male colleague. Once, a female friend and I tried to walk alone to the market, which is quite close, but it did not go well. My friend only had a hat covering her hair, but it wasn’t enough. So, I would say, it is better to always be accompanied by a man.
Silvia: Have you faced any challenges in your supervisor role?
Tendai: It's easier for our male supervisors to manage their colleagues. Being a female supervisor can be challenging. When I arrived here, I did not know the culture and how to behave with male colleagues. Back at home in Zambia, it is normal to shake hands with men, even hug them, but here you can’t do it. Therefore, I had to learn Sudanese culture habits and gain the respect of my male colleagues. To do that, I decided to make them my friends, and not to act only as their supervisor. Now at the office, everybody's my friend and it’s very easy to work together as a team.